If Shania was my daughter i would tell her to do a background check on a person that she would date or do business with. There is alot of scumbags out there,all women before dateing or before they get married should do the same saves alot heartache . If she gets married again she should do a prenuptial agreement to protect her self. Our company, we do background checks on employees we fine 70per cent lies to us.
Yeah well this was really suppose to be a shoe in, a true love and at first they both thought so. People say Mutt should have had a prenup considering he was the rich guy and shania was the rising star, but this was a legitimate relationship with trust, but maybe Shania should have waited longer than six months after meeting him face to face to make absolutely sure now that all this has happened. But it's easy to say that now when before we all thought this was wonderful to fall in love so quickly and move into a happy state of marriage as quickly as it happened. I guess it's a time to learn.
i have to say that this is a good idea,but if i'm dating a guy and he finds out that i'm doing a backround check on him, then he'd probably dump me i was suprised to read that 70% of your employees lie,that is horrible,i guess this world is not a heaven after all.
as for shania's case,as she has said herself,she followed her heart and it didn't let her down,well now i guess she must have a different opinion about that.
Joe you are right,maybe she should have waited, but after all that she had been through she might have thought that she could take the chance and come what may. who knows waht kind of excuses Mutt have used to cover his 2 divorces,ok his first marriage was with a girl he knew since he was 4 and they were married really young,BUT what about his second wife??
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I have said MANY times...I respect woman SO much but when it comes to LOVE that are quite often total airheads...And yes..It might apply to Shania as well...She rolled a HUGE dice when she married Mutt...and she lost......She could have had any gem of a man she wanted...She chose to pick somebody who saw her on a video,had a questionable history,was much older(that could have meant no children) and married him 6 months later....Sorry guys...Love her to death...BUT....She might have been an airhead on that one...Bob
HA HA airheads, Bob you are right,my bro thinks the same about women,he says 'but they can't see that some men are scums?',well i guess No we can't because it feels great to be in love. and like i said,shania have had been through hard times so she might have thought 'well what the heck,it feels right so let's give it a try'. well,they had beautiful years together i'm sure,but most importand they have Eja.
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Some things are so hard to say because in life it is so easy to offend certain people without meaning to... Having said that I would like to tell you of a recent conversation with Cindy(my wife) Bob........With Mutt already being married twice should that not have put out a little signal to Shania...She would be number 3.
Cindy....NO....You have to understand Bob...If he had her convinced that even though she was number 3, she was really number one because he thought he had found true love the first 2 times but only after meeting her did he realized he never had really found it...He actually may have believed it as well. Suppose I see what Cindy means but there is still that AIRHEAD part that just won't go away... If any of you guys have been married 3 times I understand if you are upset with me so let me have it...I won't fight back because maybe I am SO wrong.. Bob
well personally i haven't even been in a wedding as a guest ha ha look Bob,to be honest when many years ago i found out that Mutt had 2 divorces before shania it didn't sound great to me,i thought 'oh but why?' so i was kinda afraid for shania,because she would love to be married for life,some people and apparently Mutt don't have a problem to get married againand again,i think shania is not like that so she must be sad now.
as for me personally,i f a guy told me that he was 2 divorce, i'd run away he he i was thinking about that even before i heard the separation news.
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Country gal; If the guy you date is not hiding anything then he should not mine.Somebody said that he is walking out then he is hiding something.Doing a background check is cheaper then divorces.Shania has to much at stake,I only want to protect her from the looser and scumbags. A woman was dating a salemen he told her he was not married,after few months,she did a background check found out he was married and had four kids 300 miles away. she dump his butt. I want Shania to be safe and happy i worry about her.
Hey Arsen...I get what you are saying, but the word background check kind of makes it sound like a job application. I would hope Shania is much more careful next time..Having said that...Woman and love....A bit flighty sometimes and quite often not just once.. Your point is a good one...Bob
Yes Arsen, you said exactly what i wanted to hear,an innocent guy wouldn't mind,i know i wouldn't. but they say that if you don't trust somebody then how you can have a healthy relationship,but if you are still in the beginning of that relationship, then it's ok i guess. as for married guys dating other women,that tends to be a trend unfortunelly.
i've seen women got dumped by their husbands and then they didn't even had enough money to eat,because those scums wouldn't let them work while they were married. nowadays it seems that you can't trust no one.
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I think when Shania met Mutt she fell madly in love. Here was someone important in the music industry who liked her songs and saw talent in her. Most important though he was someone who could take care of her and her family for a change. Shania would no longer have to be the primary care giver. It must have felt fantastic for her. It sounds like he loved her too (by not asking her to sign a prenup). She fell deeply in love. Being his 3rd wife should have sent off alarm signals unfortuantly.
Yup, Mutt was at the right place at the right time. Shania believed in this guy. He was charming and swept her off her feet. Gave her confidence in praising her work and giving her the open door, the green light. Shania an old fashioned girl she truly believes in following her heart and love will always find a way. I admire that, but it's so hard to do that in this day and age. The world is an evil place and everyone is looking out for themselves.
I too thought about it when I first found out Mutt was married for the third time. Why? Why was it no good twice before? Same thought, well the first one was a person from childhood they figured why not, let's get married, but didn't click. Second wife is a model and wanted to settle down and Mutt wasn't ready for kids. And then oh boy Shania's video comes across the TV. Mutt had to do everything to get a hold of her. We know the story how he pursued Shania and she ignored him from the beginning and then found out this guy was serious stuff and not a creep as Shania herself described.
Well like Bob said, all the red flags were there with this guy, all his odd stuff, but music connected them and Shania put all her cards in and gambled this would be a sure thing. Six months later they are married. Mutt had this special gal who happened to be gorgeous and Shania thought she had her prince charming. Like she said, someone who finally will be able to take care of her as in the past she was providing the care giving. She was hesitant to spend money until she had her own earned money. What a sad situation. Such a good effort on Shania's part, but lost in all the madness.
Did Mutt ever watch "Fatal Attraction" or "Unfaithful?"
Apparently, NOT! I'm thinking of Glenn Close's character...Man! She was scary!! Then Ann Archer's character shoots Glenn Close's character at the end. Good movie...every man should see it.
Apparently, he also forgot Shania is certified to operate a chainsaw too!
